Buck Privates


Written on February 9, 2010 – 7:05 am | by jamiemeyers1956

Buck Privates
Buck Privates (1941)

IMDB rating: 7.20

Plot: Bud and Lou enlist in the army in order to escape being hauled off to jail, and soon find themselves in boot camp. To their dismay, the company’s drill instructor is none other than the cop who was all set to run them off to the hoosegow in the first place! The boys end up having a whale of a time getting under the skin of their humourless nemesis.
Directors: Lubin Arthur

Actors: Abbott Bud,Costello Lou,Bowman Lee,Curtis Alan,Pendleton Nat,Hinds Samuel S.,Strang Harry,Elliott Leonard,Howard Shemp,Frankovich M.J.,Comedy,Musical,

Would really like an opinion?
Now i realise this is not a parenting/pregnancy question, but this is the section that i normally use.
So I let my hubby to be see a strip show for his bucks nite, but specifically stated that there was too be no private dances and so on. It was my job to pick the boys up from one venue and drop them to the next. On picking them up, hubby to be did not speak to me and was particulally quiet, i then discover from one of the boys that one of them had paid for a private dance for him which was totally against the agreement.

I feel a bit betrayed but would have perhaps not been so upset if my partner had of told me himself and am now rethinking my decision to marry this man.

what do you think?

its your fault for saying he could go to a strip club

what ever you say he can go one step further, thats how bucks nights work

you say no party, they have a party
you say ok party, they go to a stip joint
you say ok strip joint, they get a private dance
you say ok private dance, he sleeps with the dancers

| Jan 24, 2010

its a small slip up really. It is difficult to go against all your buddies when they are pushing something on you.

That said; the fact that he didn’t say anything could be because
1) he didn’t want to discuss it in front of the guys, and had you given him the chance he may have told you privately.

2) he is a person who will always decide to do what ever he wants with no regard for your feelings. If that is the case clearly you should not marry him

The real thing here is that in the course of your marriage you are going to face much harder and more serious problems then whether or not he hedged on his bucks night. If you can’t/ won’t commit to that then you should not get married at all
Andrea | Jan 23, 2010

I’m thinking that he didn’t tell you because he was ashamed, he didn’t ask for the private dance by the sounds of things, i think his mates did it for a laugh and he now feels really bad for not saying no.
I would not reconsider marrying him if this is your only reason to doubt him, we all make mistakes and he obviously feels bad enough already, if you want to talk it tho with him then tell him you know and that you don’t like it but you don’t blame him. i’m sure when you see the relief in his face you will realise he is probably feeling worse then you about this.
I could be wrong that is why i would say if you have a lot of other reasons to doubt him then think carefully but if this is the only problem then i wouldn’t worry.
tdrammeh79 | Jan 23, 2010

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